It’s September. Time for a little Lotte Lenya-esque bittersweet melancholia (and I personally prefer bittersweet to milk melancholia) as the days grow shorter, the air crisps, and the leaves turn to flame. Time to read and talk, talk, talk!
- Books you need to read before you’re 15 is the topic in Curious Collections. Designated so because 1) You need to read them when your mind is young and fresh and receptive — open to life an all its grand possibilities OR 2) You’re 15 and you have TERRIBLE taste in books. In either case, I think we can all agree remembering ourselves at 15 is something best done in private, or at least not in the middle of a coffee shop. [“Mommy, why is that lady crawling under the table and sobbing?” N.B. I’m happy to say Panera Bread really takes its vacuuming seriously. Unusual in these times.]
- In Culinary Arts, the annual pumpkin spice conversation is happening. Don’t throw the squash out with the latte! And think of the other potentially trendy fall vegetable flavor crossover combinations as yet untried: Cabbage-stuffed cronuts! Rutabaga chai paninis! Brussel sprout molten mini-charlottes!
- Movies! Movies, movies, movies! What are you looking forward to as the fall movie season approaches? Esoteric or blockbustery, it’s a dead cert you’ll find someone to agree with and/or enlighten you.
- Lots of titular talk lately. [N.B. Another Curious Collection worth pursuing: perfectly innocent words it’s hard to say with a straight face. Try it. Titular. Tit-u-lar. “Mommy, that lady under the table just said—Wait! I haven’t finished my cold-pressed rapini kuchen!"] Book titles that are complete sentences in the Literary Loft. Choosing titles and whether titles must appear somewhere in the text in Pencils and Whatnot.
- In What Are You Reading? it’s the usual fantastically mixed bag, titularly speaking (and I KNOW I’m using “titular” incorrectly, but it’s a “thing”). I can give you two really good reasons to check it out (library pun): 1) You will instantly find a half-dozen to a half-million books you want to read AND 2) You will instantly be able to nod knowingly and say “I’ve heard REALLY good things about that!” in any titular-type situation.
Well, I’ve gone on too long already and about 99.9% of the highly interesting and often hilarious discussion remains un-rounded up. But I’m stopping here, and trusting that you won’t take MY word for it. Besides, that bittersweet melancholia and kohlrabi clafoutis won’t eat itself.
The author of this book has been fascinated with the subject of death and dying since she was a young girl and witnessed the death of another young girl who took a fall at a local mall. For years afterwards she was filled with angst and trepidation and described herself as “functionally morbid.”
When she went to college she got a degree in medieval history with a focus on death and rituals and afterwards got a job working at a mortuary — the Westwind Cremation & Burial.
This book describes her experiences facing death straight on and how it actually eased her own existential angst and made her better able to appreciate and enjoy her own life. We not only read (detailed) descriptions of what happens to bodies in a crematorium, we also learn about other mortuary practices and what really happens behind the scenes.
The author makes such an important case against our own culture’s tendency to avoid death (and aging!) and to try to avoid its very existence. She points out how in the past and how even today — in other cultures — family and neighbors took care of their dead and witnessed dying all the time. She points out how important that is to accepting our own death and by doing so, make it less frightening and esoteric.
Lest I give the impression that this is a depressing book — it is anything but that. There are so many laugh-out-loud moments and when I finished the last page I found myself with a little less of my own existential angst.
This book reminded me a lot of science writer Mary Roach and I feel like I’d love to hang out and be friends with both of them. Ms. Doughty has such a pleasant writing style and when you’re finished reading, you will not only have been entertained but educated as well. She takes on this sobering and angst-filled subject with an abundance of wit and sensitivity. I hope this book gets the attention and audience it deserves.
The Bone Clocks
Publication Date: September 2, 2014
Holly is 15 years old and lives with her parents and siblings. Holly’s mother finds out that Holly’s new boyfriend is 24 years old and she forbids Holly from seeing him anymore. Holly decides that she will run away from home and go have this wonderful romantic life with boyfriend Vinnie. At least that was the plan.
As she is packing to leave, her odd, prescient little brother Jacko comes to her room to say goodbye. He seems to be giving her strange advice and gives her a little cardboard cutout with a handmade drawing of a labyrinth, instructing her to memorize it. She thinks it all strange but promises him she will.
When she was younger, Holly had envisioned strange people talking to her and called them “the radio people.” Her parents had taken her to a psychiatrist named Dr. Marinus and he had calmed their fears and told them that this was normal for someone her age and after seeing this doctor, Holly doesn’t hear or see them anymore. That is until after the fight with her mother about the boyfriend when she runs away from home and begins to suffer these voices and weird psychic experiences all over again.
The book is divided into sections (by time) and this one ends with a tragic event that changes Holly’s life and those near and dear to her.
This is when I proceed with extra caution with the summary without giving away any spoilers. I think it’s important to find out about events and learn facts just as the author intended.
Looking for something to read? Every Sunday, Terry Weyna publishes a bookish link round-up at Like Fire. Here’s a taste:
What to Read Next
John Scalzi lists his favorite books about epidemics. I’m surprised he left out Mira Grant’s Newsfeed Trilogy — but maybe he classifies those more as zombie novels than novels about epidemics. But if that’s the case, how come he included Max Brooks’s World War Z? Still, it’s hard to argue with his choices; Stephen King’s The Stand may be the best book ever written about an epidemic.
io9 has a terrific list of ten novels that will make you more passionate about science. It would be easy to double the size of that list, I think. Add the novels of Richard Powers, for instance maybe Plowing the Dark would be a good place to start, or some of Marge Piercy’s work like He, She and It, or a novel or two by Margaret Drabble — The Peppered Moth, perhaps.
In the discussion about modern libraries, (Bookstores and Libraries) some posters talked of not being happy with the big, tomb-like libraries that were short on books and long on technology; the experience felt more like an airport then a pleasant place to visit and browse and even read. It made me think of my first experience in a library, and how much it meant to me, and made me wonder if in our rush to make libraries more modern, we have lost something in the process.
When I was a little girl, my parents owned a deli. In order to keep me from getting under foot on the weekends, they’d send me across the street to the main library. There I was taken under the wing of a wonderful librarian named Priscilla McCloud. Along with keeping me out of trouble, she was the one who really started my life-long love of books. (I have always had my suspicions that my parents paid her in pastrami sandwiches to take care of their urchin for a few hours.) She helped me learn to read, and encouraged me to be a better reader by handing me books that were just a little too hard for me. I loved the challenge! I soon learned the joy of getting totally lost in a book. She loved talking about the books I was reading, often suggesting books that led from the one I had just read, something I still do when I am looking for something new to read. That path, that spider’s web we readers always seem to happily fall into, was well-trod by the time the deli was gone and we had moved far away.
Over the years of growing up, amongst family turmoil and trouble at school, our branch library was always a place of safety and security, one where I could lose myself for a while, one where I could always find some kind person to help me find a book, an author, or just some information for a school assignment. I found other ways to keep busy but still regularly visited. I spent many happy hours browsing the shelves for a stack of books that I carried uncomplaining a mile away to my home. I lost track of Priscilla, but never forgot her. When I started high school, I was delighted to see her again, working at the branch library not far from campus. She remembered me, and every time I visited she would ask me what I was doing in school and what I was reading. She was often busy but took the time to talk about the books I was reading and suggest others. When I went off to college, I made sure to stop by and visit when I came home for vacation. After I graduated, I lost track of her again.
Fast forward to the year 2000. I had just gotten online and found the Atlantic‘s Table Talk, a site where bibliophiles could talk about books. I was in heaven! I never knew there were so many people like me, I felt like a little girl again, being guided and encouraged by others to books and authors I never have imagined existed. When the subject of how we got started in reading came up, I told my story about Priscilla. I was shocked when one of the posters asked me a few questions, and told me that my dear librarian was her godmother! Priscilla was in a nursing home, not doing all that well. When the godchild mentioned my name to her, she didn’t seem to remember it, but smiled when she heard the story. Since this was before I knew anything about social media, I didn’t think of asking for her address but it doesn’t matter. I still think of her in these days of Facebook and Twitter, when I can talk online with other readers about the books we read or want to read. That’s what Bookballoon site is all about. Connecting readers like me who don’t want to lose the spark that Priscilla McCloud planted so long ago.
I still think of Priscilla when I visit libraries today. My branch library has been remodeled so that the shelves are far from each other in different locations, almost hiding the fact that many of the older books have disappeared. A friend of mine, a long time library volunteer, finally quit in despair over how many books were being discarded. There is no one at a reference desk, and one librarian available to help with the computer kiosks we now use to check out books. I know the world has changed (and in this day and age, any parent that would send their six year old across a busy street to the library by herself would be in a world of hurt! ); I know that libraries must change to keep running. But can a library still be designed to be that welcoming, safe, secure place of learning that I remember? And will there still be people there who will take the time for kids like me – in the way, out of sorts, who just need some encouragement and guidance? I have to be optimistic and think that the love of books will continue to be passed on, in a different way perhaps that I could ever imagine. And that surely Priscilla would be smiling.
- Charlie and the Chocolate Factory goes in an…interesting…direction cover Art (of the Book)-wise.
- More cover coverage: we’re judging the cover by the cover and replacing movie tie-in covers (yuck) on our Book Shelves with the classic covers we remember. Cover, cover, cover! It doesn’t even sound like a word any more!
- Blinky page-turns in E-Readers: a feature or a bug?
- What Are You Reading? Donna Tartt? Defend your choice! No, not really. But sort of!
- The joys and challenges of those big, fat photo sections in Biographies, Autobiographies, and Memoirs.
- Quick poll on Maggie Gyllenhaal’s staring style in her new TV show The Honorable Woman: compelling or vacuous? One vote per household.
- Sweet omelets and cucumbers! It’s the new “in” exclamation. “Oh my stars and garters!” is sooo 1910. No, really, it’s just Culinary (Arts).
- Also all the rage: tortoiseshell Pets.
- Movies about Robert Altman’s boyhood starring Grace Zabriskie and Goldie Hawn. (I may have been skimming this discussion a little.)
- People who like Sports are Talking about this made-up baseball word: “TOOTBLAN.” TOOTBLAN, TOOTBLAN, TOOTBLAN. Cover!
- One of those things that is…are…umm…one of the things up with which I will not put is…well, I mean, if you think less…I mean fewer…”What if”,…no only British people do quotes like that…is passive voice showing or telling or both…is that why Chekhov’s Gun…anyway…I mean GRAMMAR, right?